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  1. Dave

    Thank you Dennis. I found this very insightful and helpful. I like the your written style. I gave my life to the Lord in June of 2013. I find I am struggling a bit to come through some sadness in my life as a result of walking away from so many things in a short period of time. It can be overwhelming. I am 47 years old and I did not grow up with a faith or understanding of what it meant to believe in God and spent my life doing as I pleased. Today I was speaking with a mentor who has been appointed to me by the church I am attending. I explained to him that I was studying the word in hopes of brain-washing myself so as to draw closer to the Holy Spirit and break the sadness I have been experiencing. A friend of mine had given me a long list of scriptures that essentially identify who we are in Christ. They are conclusions drawn from specific scriptures. They are words you can speak over yourself to remind you who you are. ie: All begin with, “In Jesus’ name…..I am the son of God and a joint heir of God” Galatians 4:7. When I looked this verse up, I became curious about being the “Son of God” since I have been made well aware of John 3:16 and “God sending his only begotten son…” My mentor began explaining that we are no longer slaves. I stopped him and asked what that meant and he stated that we are no longer slaves to sin (the manifestations or things that are opposite of the fruit of the spirit) This had me curious to know what the opposites to the fruit of the spirit are. This being because I would like to remove those from my life. Thus I was brought to your sight, but not before I found another link that explained some of the emotions tied to the opposites. For example the opposite of “Love” was “Hate” and the opposite of “Joy” was listed as “Sadness” and the opposite of “Peace” was “Anxiousness”. With the exception of, “Hate” or “Hatred”, “Sadness”, and “Anxiousness” are not written by Paul in Galatians in those verses before the Fruit of the Spirit. Interestingly enough however, the emotions of “Sadness” and “Anxiousness” I believe are the manifestations of another popular opposite of “Love” which is “Fear”. So, where am I going with all of this? Not sure exactly other than expressing some thoughtful words to a complete stranger online who happens to be aiding in my search for truth, understanding and wisdom. I am also wanting to point out to you that you have listed “Faith” as one of the “Fruits”. In the versions of the Word I have been referencing, I do not see “Faith” on the list and it has me wondering where you got yours from. I have the link to the Blog post I found that offers another take on “Opposites of the Fruit”… In this New Year I commit to spending much less time in any of the following emotions: Fear, Hatred, Sadness, Anxiousness, Impatience, Guilt, Shame, Envy, Disgust, Annoyance, Anger, Helplessness, Powerlessness, Self Pity and Pride. The bottom line I suppose is we simply need to ask what kind of feeling comes up when we hear a word, if it is negative, chances are very good that the word is not of God. This leads me to consider that it can pretty much boil down to Attitude. My next step in Brain Washing is to incorporate the “BeAttitudes”. If you would like to connect offline, I would welcome that….just send an email to me Reason I state that is I am just not sure how I will be notified if you respond….this is a rare instance where I have commented on someone’s Blog that before today I did not know existed. Thanks for reading and once again for what you wrote.

    • If you don’t believe one saved always saved you will never be able to rest in Christ. All that He has accomplished is bb grace. The more you know this. The more you fall in Love with Him. And want to follow Him. The spirit He gave us is God working in us. The flesh profits nothing. It takes a life time to grow in Christ. Be patient with yourself. I believe are saved and being saved. Once you have been born again and become his child, an I am sure you are, He will never leave or forsake you

      • dennis@seekandsavethelost.com

        I prefer believing in eternal security (1 John 5:13) instead of saying once saved always saved. I was a false convert and I don’t believe that I was the only one who asked Jesus into my heart but hadn’t repented and surrendered my life to Jesus. Too many churches are looking for people to make a decision for Jesus because they believe once saved always saved, ie – I can do anything I want to including murdering someone because once saved always saved. A true Christian, someone who is born again will be a different person than they were before. Works don’t save us, but being saved changes us.

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